It is for this reason that LTK has one of my favorite scenes. After he kills Sanchez, in one of the most ironic and horrid deaths, Bond is exhausted and spent. There’s no one liner or quip. Dalton brought Fleming’s spirit onscreen in that moment. It’s not until Pam arrives that he perks up a bit.
As a side note, I’m finding this conversation very enlightening. Everyone is making good points, even among the disagreements, and there’s insight to each post. As a kid, I had my first crush and first Bond movie in the same year. So I did see Bond as sort of a romantic role model early on. There are better cinematic role models for that for sure, but not many in movies a 4th grader wants to see. Star Wars was the same year. Fortunately, I never emulated Bond’s more questionable traits, but kept the quips and, hopefully, charm of some of the lighter moments. But the lines Moore gets away with in MR still astound me today.
As for Solitaire, the initial card Moore pulls out at random in Mr. Big’s Harlem place does say that they will be lovers, and I’m not so sure the film ever says the cards are wrong. Indeed, many of its forecasts prove correct (“he brings death and destruction.”) And the end with Baron Samedi on the train certainly doesn’t refute the cult. Not that I’m saying cards aren’t a sham, quite the opposite. Though I did have a female friend who got into astrology after a breakup, which was the opposite trajectory of Solitaire’s.
It’s also interesting to note the shifts in Bond films with the character and portrayal of women. LALD/TMWTGG to TSWLM is noticeable for the appeal to the family friendly character. However, the way women are objectified in MR compared to a more respectful treatment in the two movies before and after is a stark contrast. In FYEO, Moore treats Lisl and Melina well. Each relationship develops consensually. And Bond knows Bibi is too young to consent, though she’s probably as old as the Solitaire character. Sylvia Trench would also be interesting to discuss as she’s clearly into Bond yet he is always called away before any consummation happens.
CR/QoS to SF/SP is another shift in how the women are portrayed. The former develop relationships and earn their authenticity but the latter two are more problematic. One thing I’m surprised no one brought up is Bond’s “waste of Scotch” line, which I take more as his coldness covering his feelings among a bunch of male henchmen, but many view it mysoginistically at face value. I see it as a callback to his quashing vulnerable feelings after having been betrayed by Vesper, and also as sort of male bravado in front of other men about to kill him.
But back to Dalton, I think the women in TLD and LTK are some of the strongest in the series. Pam literally saves Bond’s life in the cocaine factory which we hadn’t really scene onscreen since Tatiana in FRWL or Tracy in the ice rink. But in LTK Bond is clearly doomed without help, whereas the other too he still has a fighting chance. Later, the script diminishes Pam’s strength with the line “I love him so much!” reducing her to a teenage girl envious her crush had a dalliance. I don’t see that happening to Nomi, who appears to be similar to Pam’s character as a strong field agent. And it didn’t happen with Natalya in GE either as she’s seen as strong and intelligent throughout the film.
It’s interesting though that among the women I know that have seen Bond films with me (TLD, LTK, TWINE, DAD, CR, SP I all had dates for), none of them bring up these issues. My sister never said anything about Andrea Anders’ depiction, and in fact, she was the one who suggested to my parents it was time for me to see a Bond film (TSWLM) when I was ten. I mentioned to her Connery’s controversial comment about slapping women some years ago, and her response was “he can slap me anytime.” One girlfriend slapped a kiss on a Connery poster I had, and many profess a desire for Daniel Craig. The astrology one I mentioned earlier said, “Oh, that man!” in reference to Craig. Similar sentiments were made with Pierce Brosnan. Not so much with Dalton, which is ironic given that his Bond treats women better in his films. One girlfriend even told me, “I like all the Bond posters you have in your house.” She had two daughters but didn’t feel uncomfortable with Bond. Not that any of this sanctions his more questionable behavior, but I do find the women’s take on Bond interesting at times.